Tuesday, April 4, 2017

随心笔:我输得起

本无一物?比什么?
老爷,你功力深厚,看破红尘。

既然“有”就能比,但也可以不比。
我有,但不比,也没法输。
老哥,你修为极高。

我有,也看到他人有,
我能比,也想比。
但我输了,我接受,
我还替人开心,
觉得他是才俊。
老弟,你够豁达的。

我有,心里觉得少,
看他多,心里难受。
唉,朋友,我了解,
有时我们都这样,
干一杯,笑一笑,
我们坦然。

我有,装没有,
没有,以为有,
知之为不知,不知为之知
小子,这样不行,
输给自己,输得一塌糊涂。

 


7 comments:

  1. 讲输得起,其实是输不起。
    输得起 赢过 输不起,所以你讲输得起,其实是输不起。

    M

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  2. M, 四种比法,输法,我只停留在后两种比较多,有时会有第三种的心态。

    你呢?你好像看别人比较清楚呢。

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  3. 怕输,怕失败, 需要外人的肯定和赞许, 妒忌比你好的人, 自以为是,偏见, 等等, 都是人之习性, 不要太在意, 但必须试着去了解和改善。 很多写博客的人都可以从他们的文章里看到这些偏见。

    我随口胡说,不要太在意。

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  4. 你是为自己而活,不是为别人而活。

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    1. Blursotong King,

      这句话的表层意思容易明白。
      为自己活是对的,因为开心,为别人而活,很辛苦。

      真的是这样吗?为别人而活,一定辛苦吗?
      自己是谁?怎么样才真的是为了自己?

      我们的信念,心境是静态还是动态?它是直线升华吗?

      没关系,当我说屁话好了。

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